Since I've become a stay-at-home mom, I thought I should put the free time I have to good use. I just have 3 simple goals.
- Lose weight
- Study
- Learn something new.
Losing weight is not as simple as I thought it would be. I put on quite a lot of weight during my pregnancy, and once the baby was out, the extra weight was much more obvious. I get corny comments all the time, like 'When are you having the baby?' or 'Do you have another one hiding in your tummy?', or 'Now you look like your mom'. Well, hahaha!, but it's funny only the first time round, so I thought I'd better do something about it. And like I said, it's not easy. Since I started staying at home, I mostly spend my day watching TV or surfing the net, and eating, ofcourse. The trouble is I like watching cooking shows, Nigella feasts on travelandliving is a favourite. I sit there gaining weight while she mixes cream and chocolate, and butter and brown sugar and whatnot, and I get crazy ideas in my head and end up baking cakes and roasting things. Arghh.
So I thought I'd try some light stretching exercises. I did a session of lunges once, and when I started to huff and puff, I looked at the clock and only 7 minutes had passed! I called up a cousin and asked (begged) her to lend me her treadmill. She kindly let me borrow it, I climbed on and immediately felt pain in my knees. How fit am I, eh? I talked about my problem to my mom, and she told me to simply go for a walk while the baby sleeps. How simple! So I've gone on walks, exactly 4 times, and combining the walks with the treadmill, I'm starting to feel slightly fitter. I hope I can lose enough weight to get back into my pre-pregnancy jeans. That's all I want.
Studying is not my forte, you'd know if you've read one of my previous post. But like I wrote in JOBS, incase the MPSC decide to employ doctors through exams, I want to be ready for it. That said, it's really, really tough reading text books. One can easily watch TV for hours but reading even a few pages take so much effort. I still want USB ports in my head.
Learning something new, or doing anything new is the only way to grow in life. When one was younger, one has more chances of doing something new. There are more new places to see, more new things to try, but as one ages, you get caught up doing the same thing everyday. I thought of trying my hand at knitting baby booties etc but I would need someone to teach me every step, and both my moms are too busy to do that. Learning to drive is also on the agenda. But the only time H and I got up early, we had visitors. Yesterday, we went out for a drive (risking another run in, as it was sunday), and in the middle of nowhere, he stops the car and tells me to drive. I protested, I was sleep-deprived, hungry, mentally unprepared, we had the baby with us in the car, I've forgotten all about gears and clutches, and to top it, it was raining! But he insisted, and it wasn't that hard at all! But I was rounding a turn and a taxi suddenly loomed. I managed to stop, got out of the car and that was the end of my lesson :). I badly want to learn driving, I've tried several times but failed miserably (worth another post). I don't think I have the heart for it. I will try again though.
4 comments:
Now that's a very very brave thing, bringing out your to-do list out in the open. Me, I keep my to-do list in my head and never follow them. Sure I follow the small things like clean house go shopping etc but the biggies like the ones you listed, I never get them done.
I sure hope you achieve all that you've set out for yourself, and have fun too along the way.
I really need to lose weight too. Always happens around this time of the year. I'm very careful around Dec/Jan but with not having to go to work every day until late April/early May, I end up larded in all the wrong places. I do have a treadmill but it's more like an expensive clothes-hanger, sigh.
Oh and I did once try learning to drive. Managed to drive around the field where we practised but reversing scared me so much I never continued the classes.
Good luck with your list. It's a great idea doing something like that while you're relatively free before the baby gets bigger and more demanding.
@Aduhi, very brave of me indeed, especially if I fail in my attempts :) It's irritating how one can't control seemingly simple things like one's own weight.
@Calliopia, didn't want to buy my own treadmill for the same reason. Even the borrowed one has started attracting towels, very soon it may become a glorified clothes-horse.. hehe.
I am probably going to fail miserably with my to-dos, especially the driving. Last night we tried again at New Capital Complex, and I couldn't get the hang of letting go of the clutch and pressing on the accelerator :(
Thanks for your words of support though.
BTW, vawiin chu naute kan vaccinate leh a, rilru a hah lawk leh tawp. The last time was difficult, she seemed to be in pain the whole day and night. Hope she'll do better today :(
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